We all know about Tiger woods and his numerous affairs, Cheryl Cole and her split with Ashely Cole, Vernon kay's secret text messages under his wife's Tess Daley's nose and now there's another one!!! Mathew knowles has been confirmed as the father of a baby boy after allegedly having an 18 month affair.
Married men having affairs is an old age issue, which brings the question to mind. Is promiscuity naturally in all Men's nature? Is putting a ring on it not enough?
From my perspective I do believe that when you marry, you have to be with the right person and I do mean the right person. Looks should not be the main factor although many men are visually stimulated, looks wear off and in the end you only have the person standing next to you to live the rest of your life with, it seems that this is something most people seem to grasp too late into their marriage. Is your love deep enough? I personally think that you need to find the person your with amazing, exciting and enthralling and I'm not just talking about the first 6 months, this I believe is what will truly sustain the marriage. Time is also key there is no rush, work on yourself and your insecurities; a lot of people's love are based on insecurities within themselves. Although it is good to depend on your partner, do not become too dependent, you are both adults, and you both need to think for yourself. Lastly do not let your emotions get the best of your common sense, are you compatible?
Admittedly I do think people cheat in marriage due to boredom and look for something new,exciting and different. However they fail to end their marriage as they also want the reassurance of their wife at home. Unfortunately you cannot have your cake and eat it too.Cheating is like an addiction, once you've tried it, it'll be easy to do it again and again and again, as they say once a cheater always a cheater.
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